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If you’ve ever been told, “Just calm down,”   “Pray more,”  or “Give it time,”  and still found your body stuck in anxiety, tension, or shutdown — you’re not alone. For many people, anxiety and trauma aren’t just thoughts. They live in the nervous system . As a trauma therapist, I often work with clients who feel confused or frustrated because they understand their experiences logically, yet their bodies still react automatically. This doesn’t mean healing isn’t happening. It

“I’m already anxious about seeing my family for the holidays.” As a therapist, when I hear this, I don’t think someone is being dramatic, negative, or ungrateful.I think: their nervous system remembers something important. For many people, the holidays aren’t just about gatherings, traditions, or celebrations. They can quietly (or loudly) activate old family dynamics, roles, and emotional wounds that live beneath the surface. And often, the body knows this before the mind doe

By Jana Grimes, Trauma & EMDR Therapist Most people understand anxiety. But fewer people understand OCD — and even fewer realize how often the two are confused. If you’ve ever wondered: “Is this anxiety… or something else?” You’re not alone. Many of my clients come in feeling overwhelmed, ashamed, or stuck — not because their symptoms are “bad,” but because they’ve been mislabeled or misunderstood for years. In this post, I’ll break down the difference between anxiety and OCD

EMDR Therapy for More Than Trauma | Jana Grimes Therapy in Gig Harbor & Tacoma, WA EMDR isn’t just for trauma. Learn how EMDR therapy helps women heal from anxiety, self-doubt, and old emotional patterns to create lasting calm and connection. When people hear EMDR , they often think it’s only for those who’ve experienced major, life-threatening trauma — what’s often called Big T  trauma. But EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) can help you heal from any  expe

If you’ve ever felt like your 53-minute therapy sessions (time designed by insurance companies) end just as you start to open up, you’re not alone. Many people reach a point in their healing where they want to go deeper — without the stop-and-start feeling of weekly therapy. That’s where EMDR Intensives  come in. These longer therapy sessions allow you to process trauma, anxiety, grief, or stress in a focused, gentle, and efficient way — so you can experience meaningful progr

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When you’ve lived through ongoing trauma, your nervous system learns to stay on high alert. You might feel jumpy, disconnected,...

Have you ever felt like your body reacts before your brain can catch up? Maybe your heart races during a hard conversation, or you feel...

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to stay in our heads—thinking, analyzing, distracting—anything to avoid discomfort. But when it comes...

Have you ever tried holding a beachball underwater? No matter how hard you press or how long you try to keep it down, it eventually pops...

If you’ve ever felt the sting of self-doubt or heard the voice inside your head whispering, “You’re not good enough,” you’re not alone....

Grief doesn’t arrive with instructions. It’s unpredictable, personal, and often misunderstood. Whether your loss is recent or years old,...

When people hear about Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), they often associate it with treating post-traumatic stress...

Have you ever noticed how your body reacts differently in stressful versus safe situations? One moment, you might feel calm and...